Spring
1999
The
Power of Forgiveness
Nancy T Warner
“Forgive, and you shall be forgiven” Luke 6:37b.
When we forgive, we make a decision to do so. But forgiveness
must go beyond this decision to a change in our feelings.
We can, and should, make the decision, but only the Lord can
change our feelings.
Corrie Ten-Boone was a prisoner in a communist refugee camp.
She not only endured the cruelty of the prison guards but
witnessed the painful death of her sister under their brutality.
Years later, while Corrie was ministering on forgiveness,
one of the cruelest of the prison guards in that camp came
up and stood at the altar rail in front of her. Corrie's heart
froze as she remembered what had happened to her sister. This
guard had repented, and knew that the Lord had forgiven him,
but he told Corrie that it would really help if he could hear
her forgiveness also.
Corrie knew she should do this. She had noticed that those
who had been in the concentration camps, and were able to
forgive, were living normal lives. Not only that, but the
Lord commanded that we forgive. Yet her body became like stone,
and she could hardly move.
She determined to say three simple words, "I forgive
you." With effort she reached out her hand to shake his,
when all of a sudden the Holy Spirit flooded her. She began
to cry "I forgive you, I forgive you" as she embraced
the man. Corrie made the choice, God changed the heart.
I remember a situation that was very difficult for me. I
felt I had come too far in the Lord to let unforgiveness settle
within. I understood that nothing can hinder a life more than
the root of bitterness, which in time will entangle and darken
a person’s spirit.
For months I kept choosing to forgive, trying to release
those involved, yet still having negative feelings. Then one
day, the Lord intervened in my life as I was overwhelmed by
His presence. In the “light” of His manifest presence,
I saw the excellency of who He is and how He had forgiven
those who crucified Him. As I saw in perspective all that
the Lord was presently doing in my life, this very hurtful
situation again flashed before my mind, except this time it
became as nothing in the glory of His presence.
In his presence, that offense had literally been cremated
inside of me, and it has never again bothered me. Later, the
Lord again came, this time for hours, revealing His love.
He loves those who love Him above all else, and those who
seek Him shall indeed find Him.
The forgiveness that we receive, and extend to others, can
be seen in Philemon, through a choice that Paul asked a person
whom he had led to the Lord to make.
A servant had taken some of his master's property and run
away. He came in contact with Paul and became a believer.
Realizing the necessity of making this right, Paul sent this
servant back to his master with a note asking that he be forgiven
of his wrongs.
Here, we see every aspect of divine forgiveness duplicated
in the forgiveness that Paul sought for this man. He had been
unprofitable to his master, and there was offense. Yet in
verse ten, Paul beseeches for his forgiveness. Paul not only
made intercession for him, but offered to make a substitute
payment for the debt the man owed. Paul asked that this man
not only be restored, but elevated into a new relationship;
that he be received not only as a servant, but now as a brother.
Paul did not justify what this man did, but he pointed out
that perhaps it was for this purpose, that he might find salvation.
Romans 8:28 does not tell us that all things are good. Rather
it promises to work all things together for good, to them
that love God and who are called according to His purpose.
On days when everything seems to be going wrong, I finally
pray, “Lord, turn these things for good.” This
may have been the only way the Lord could get my attention.
All things do work together for good if we will but take time
to look to the Lord. This will give us hope in any situation.
This man could have refused to forgive the runaway slave,
but Paul reminded him that he owed his redemption to Paul
as well. As we walk through life and realize how gracious
the Lord has been to us, there comes a humility that makes
it easier for us to forgive others. Where would any one of
us be, if only perfection could please the Lord? We should
never demand perfection of others, when we ourselves need
grace.
“And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving
one another, even as God for Christ's sake has forgiven
you." Eph 4:32.
Being able to walk in the deeper truths of the Spirit becomes
ultimately easy when we realize the very heart of the Gospel
is simply loving God with all of our hearts, and our brother
as ourselves. It is in this that we pass from death to life,
entering into an out-resurrection of mere religion into a
life of fellowship with the Lord. This is the key to an overcoming
life.
Even as faith without works is dead, so is the profession
of love without forgiveness. May our love for the Lord always
be evident in our lives. This was the love that motivated
Corrie to make the choice she made, and the Lord responded
by manifesting His love through her.
May each of us fight the good warfare of forgiveness. If
Corrie could forgive that prison guard, there is no one that
you and I cannot forgive.
The choice is ours to make.